---
title: "Parental Controls in 2026: A Practical Guide That Actually Works"
date: 2026-04-14
description: "An honest comparison of iOS Screen Time, Android Family Link, router filters and DNS-based VPN filtering — what each one is good for, and how to combine them."
tags: ["parental controls", "iOS Screen Time", "Family Link", "DNS filtering", "router", "VPN", "family"]
categories: ["safety"]
author: "Agiliton"
slug: "parental-controls-2026-practical-guide"
translationKey: "parental-controls-2026"
further_reading:
  - "is-tiktok-safe"
  - "roblox-fortnite-discord-guide"
---

There is no single "parental control" that works. Every family eventually learns this the same way — they set up Screen Time on an iPad, watch their ten-year-old bypass it in an afternoon, and start searching for a better answer. The better answer is not a different product. It is a layered setup that plays each tool to its strengths.

This guide compares the four tools most families actually have access to, what each does well, and how to combine them.

## The Four Tools That Matter

**1. iOS Screen Time.** Built into every iPhone and iPad. Strong at app-level time limits, content ratings, communication restrictions, and App Store approvals. Weak at anything web-based — Safari's content filter is a blunt instrument, and any child determined to visit a site can install a second browser, use a VPN, or open the site in the App Store preview.

**2. Google Family Link (Android).** Similar to Screen Time. Strong at app approvals, Play Store controls, daily limits, and location. Weak on web, and weak on iOS where it simply isn't supported.

**3. Router-level filtering.** DNS blocklists or content filters applied at your home Wi-Fi. Good because it covers every device on the home network, including friends' devices and the TV. Useless the moment the device leaves the house, and useless on mobile data.

**4. VPN-based DNS filtering.** A per-device tunnel that applies the same DNS filter everywhere — at home, on mobile data, on school Wi-Fi, on holiday. This is the piece most families miss. It is also the only one that travels with the device.

## Honest Comparison

| Capability | iOS Screen Time | Family Link | Router DNS | VPN DNS (e.g. Agiliton) |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| App install approvals | ✅ | ✅ | ❌ | ❌ |
| Daily app time limits | ✅ | ✅ | ❌ | ❌ |
| Content category blocking (web + app) | Partial | Partial | ✅ | ✅ |
| Works off home Wi-Fi | ✅ | ✅ | ❌ | ✅ |
| Works on school / friends' Wi-Fi | ✅ | ✅ | ❌ | ✅ |
| Blocks trackers & ads | ❌ | ❌ | Partial | ✅ |
| Works on smart TVs / Apple TV | ❌ | ❌ | ✅ | ✅ (Apple TV) |
| Your child can disable it | With the passcode | With the passcode | No | No (in child mode) |

There is no row where a single tool wins everything. The useful question is which combination to run.

## What We Actually Recommend

For a family with children aged 6-15, the layered setup that works in practice:

**Layer 1 — Device accounts (iOS Screen Time or Family Link).** Set a proper child account with the correct date of birth, an age-appropriate content rating, App Store approval required for every install, daily time limits per app category, and downtime hours that cover school and sleep. Do this first. Do not skip it, even if you add the other layers.

**Layer 2 — DNS filtering that travels with the device.** This is where Agiliton VPN fits. Install it on the child's phone, tablet, and laptop; enable the **Child** profile. Now, regardless of which Wi-Fi the device is connected to, categories like adult content, social media, gambling and dating are blocked at the DNS layer — including TikTok's web version, the one iOS Screen Time misses. The child cannot disable the VPN in child mode.

**Layer 3 — Home Wi-Fi settings.** If your router supports it (most modern mesh systems do), configure family-safe DNS on the home network. This covers visiting friends' devices, the smart TV, and gaming consoles when they're on your Wi-Fi. Cloudflare `1.1.1.3` (family filter) or NextDNS with a family profile are both fine.

**Layer 4 — Conversation, every six months.** None of the above replaces talking to your child about what they are seeing online. Controls buy you time; literacy is the long game.

## Why DNS Filtering Is the Missing Piece

Most parents set up iOS Screen Time, feel covered, and don't realise that Screen Time has no web-category filter worth the name. Safari's built-in "Limit Adult Websites" is a tiny list and is trivially bypassed by navigating to a site's IP directly, by using a different browser wrapped in a Web Clip, or by opening the mobile web in the App Store's in-app browser.

DNS filtering closes this. When a child's device tries to load `tiktok.com`, `pornhub.com` or `bet365.com`, the DNS lookup never resolves, so the app or browser has nothing to connect to. It doesn't matter which browser they use, which VPN they install, which account they sign into — the address just does not exist on that device.

The Agiliton VPN **Child** profile does this by default. Our curated blocklist combines:

- **HaGeZi Multi** for ads, trackers, malware and phishing
- **OISD** as a low-false-positive reputation list
- **A Cloudflare top-10k allowlist** to guarantee the most-visited sites stay reachable
- **Category layers** on top: social media, adult, gambling, dating, and gaming — each toggleable per profile

We trim the raw upstream lists to roughly 15-30,000 domains optimised for German and European traffic, because smaller is faster on mobile and produces fewer accidental blocks on regional sites.

## Common Mistakes

- **Giving the child the Screen Time passcode "just for homework".** Once it leaves your hands, treat it as compromised — reset it.
- **Setting up Family Link on a second-hand Android without a factory reset.** The previous owner's supervision can linger, or — worse — the device may not actually be running Family Link despite appearances.
- **Router filtering only.** Protects the house, fails the moment they're on mobile data or friends' Wi-Fi.
- **VPN only.** Doesn't limit time spent in the apps that *are* allowed. You still need device-level limits.
- **No conversation.** Produces sneaky teenagers, not safe ones.
